A Scriptural Look At Profanity
The first thing to notice when looking at what Scripture says in reference to profanity is that the Bible only gives one instance of any specific word that you ought not misuse. That is found in the 10 Commandments, where we read: “You shall not take the name of the LORD your God in vain, for the LORD will not hold him guiltless who takes his name in vain” (Exodus 20:7).
Other than that, there is no command not to use a specific word. And this is with good reason. Profanities are, as I argued earlier, contextually defined based on cultural considerations. There is no magic sound that makes any specific word good or evil.  Morality depends on the context in which it is used.
This becomes important because, unlike blasephemy, one cannot appeal directly to Scriptures in regards to a specfic word. If someone uses the LORD’s name in vain, we can simply point him to Exodus 20:7 and the matter is settled. There is, however, no specific text that says, “You shall not say the F-bomb or the s-word” etc.
And this is not surprising as the Bible was written to transcend cultures. Thus, we need to get beyond the simple words that are used and instead look at the intention and meaning that is conveyed by the words. And this becomes clear when we look at some specific texts used against profanity.
In this post, we shall look at Ephesians 4:29.
Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.
Naturally, the first rule of reading a Bible verse is…never read a Bible verse! That’s right, we need to see what the context of this entire passage is. So, what is the context of Ephesians 4:29?
Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another. Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil. Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need. Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you (Ephesians 4:25-32).
In this context, it suddenly becomes clear that Paul is not speaking of “profanities” at all. What he is addressing is something much deeper than that. Notice verse 25 begins with the distinction between truth and falsehood. This is the first thing we are commanded: avoid falsehoods.
Paul then tells us that we are not to sin in our anger (thus indicating that anger itself is not sinful, but can certainly lead to sin–a position that I would argue is reflected in the use of profanity as well). He then speaks of doing honest work, once again emphasizing the matter of truth as opposed to falsehood.
After that, we get the verse in dispute (which we will skip for the moment before looking back on it). Immediate after the disputed portion, we are told not to grieve the Holy Spirit. Finally, Paul tells us to avoid bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, slander, and malice; instead being kind, tenderhearted, and forgiving.
Now let’s look at verse 29 again. Paul says: “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths…” What is corrupting talk? It is defined by Paul as “bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, slander, and malice” in verse 31. All these are based on falsehoods, as Paul warns us in verse 25. Paul then says, “but only [speak] such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.” What kind of speech does this? Paul has already defined it as truth in verse 25, and he includes in verse 32 kindness, tenderheartedness, and forgiveness.
One other thing that must be pointed out is the fact that Paul himself states that our language must “fit the occasion” in that passage. In other words, Paul recognizes that sometimes a rebuke is necessary–and rebukes are generally not considered “kind” by the person receiving the rebuke! The context determines whether we are to act tenderheartedly toward someone, or if we are to cut him off from fellowship, as Paul did to the sinner in 1 Corinthians 5.
Now, how does this relate to the issue of profanity. First, I would argue that every time an unbeliever says anything–regardless of whether he uses profanity–he is speaking sinfully. But the issue is whether a Christian who uses profanity is sinning. In this case, that is determined not by the word that is used but by the context. Is the Christian using profanity in anger, malice, or slanderous ways? If so, then he is sinning. But if he is using profanity in a way that builds up another person, he is not sinning. Likewise, if a Christian does not use profanity but is still angery, malicious, or slanderous he is still sinning; and if he does not use profanity but builds another person up, he is not sinning. The sin or non-sin in the passage remains the same, regardless of whether someone uses a specific word (and therefore, the word itself is irrelevant to the morality of the issue).
Naturally, some may object to the possibility that profanity could ever be used to build up a person. I can only answer that I have personally benefited from someone rebuking me with strong language in the past, and it was during a time when I probably would not have listened to the “flowery” Christianese that others would use.
What about neutral situations then? Situations where the Christian uses a profanity but not in a sinful way, but without building anyone up at the time. This verse does not answer that question.






